Wills & Family
Who should I choose as executor if I don’t trust my family?
Not everyone has a relative they would trust to handle their estate. Here is how to think about other options, from friends to professional executors.
To apply for probate in England and Wales you will usually need the original Will (if there is one), details of the death, and values of the estate’s assets and debts for Inheritance Tax. Gathering bank, property, pension and debt paperwork early can make the process smoother.
Gathering paperwork after someone has died can feel overwhelming. You do not need everything at once. This checklist sets out the documents and information that are often needed, so you can collect them gradually.
If there is a Will, you will usually need to send the original, along with any codicils (formal changes). A photocopy is not normally enough. Do not remove staples or clips, as this can raise questions about whether pages were changed.
If you cannot find the original, check with the person's solicitor or bank, or any will storage service. A professional can explain what to do if only a copy exists.
You will need details from the death certificate. GOV.UK says you need to send a copy of the death certificate if the person died outside England and Wales, or if you have an interim certificate from a coroner. It is often helpful to order a few certified copies when registering the death, as many organisations ask for one.
Before applying, you need to value the estate and deal with Inheritance Tax reporting. GOV.UK asks applicants for several figures, including the gross and net value of the estate. If the estate needs a full IHT400 return, you will usually need to wait for HMRC to send a unique code before applying online.
Our guide on how Inheritance Tax works gives background.
To value the estate, collect paperwork showing what the person owned on the date of death:
When Helen's father died, she kept a simple folder. Each time a letter arrived, she added it and noted the value and contact details on one list. After a few weeks, she had nearly everything she needed to value the estate and apply.
This article covers England and Wales. In Scotland, the equivalent of probate is called "confirmation" and it works differently. Northern Ireland has its own probate office and rules. See the mygov.scot bereavement pages or nidirect's guide to applying for probate. At present we cannot reliably route enquiries from Scotland or Northern Ireland.
A professional can help if paperwork is missing, if the original Will cannot be found, or if the estate includes gifts, trusts, overseas assets or a business. If you are unsure whether you need a grant at all, our guide on when probate is needed may help. You may also find our article on the costs involved useful.
There is no need to have everything ready before getting in touch.
You can read more on our Probate page, or answer a few short questions in our probate questionnaire and we will aim to introduce you to up to three appropriately qualified firms.
WillHarbour is an independent introduction service, not a law firm, and we do not give legal, tax or financial advice. With your permission, we share your enquiry with up to three suitable firms, such as solicitors or other firms that help with estates. It is free to use and there is no obligation. The firms pay us a fee for each introduction, and they must tell you about this, and their own fees, before you instruct them.
Usually the original Will is needed. If only a copy can be found, a professional can explain the extra steps that may be involved.
You will need its details. GOV.UK says you need to send a copy if the person died outside England and Wales or if you have an interim coroner's certificate.
Look through post, statements and online banking records. You can then contact each bank to ask for a date-of-death balance.
This guide is general information about the law in England and Wales at the time it was last reviewed. It isn’t legal, tax or financial advice. For advice on your own situation, speak to a qualified professional.
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