Wills & Family
Who should I choose as executor if I don’t trust my family?
Not everyone has a relative they would trust to handle their estate. Here is how to think about other options, from friends to professional executors.
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A Will is a legal document that sets out what should happen to your money, property and belongings when you die. It also lets you choose executors, who are the people responsible for carrying out your wishes. If you have young children, you can use your Will to name the guardians you would like to look after them.
Without a Will, the law decides who inherits. In England and Wales these are called the intestacy rules, and they may not match what you would want. You can read more about what happens if someone dies without a Will in our help centre.
Almost any adult can benefit from thinking about a Will. It is often especially useful if you:
Life changes can affect an existing Will. For example, GOV.UK explains that getting married cancels any Will you made before. Our guide on when it may be time to review your Will covers the most common triggers.
A professional will usually start by asking about your family, your assets and your wishes. They can then:
If you are part of a couple, you may wonder about the difference between single and mirror Wills. A professional can explain which may fit your situation.
GOV.UK says you can write your own Will, but suggests getting advice if your Will is not simple. It gives examples, including when:
You can read the full list on the official GOV.UK guide to writing your Will. If any of these apply, our questions help us look for a professional with relevant experience.
Yes. In England and Wales you can write your own Will, and some people do. The risk is that a small mistake can cause problems later. For example, a Will that is not signed and witnessed correctly may not be valid. Our article on how a Will is signed and witnessed explains the basics.
If your wishes are simple, a do-it-yourself Will may be enough. If you have a family or financial situation that is less simple, many people prefer to use a professional so they can ask questions and get it right.
Will writing is not a regulated legal activity in England and Wales. This means anyone can offer to write a Will, whether or not they are a solicitor. Professionals who write Wills include solicitors, chartered legal executives and members of will-writing bodies such as the Institute of Professional Willwriters or the Society of Will Writers.
Whoever you use, it is sensible to check their regulation, insurance and membership yourself. You can search the Solicitors Regulation Authority register to confirm whether someone is a regulated solicitor.
It is also worth thinking about who you would like as your executor. Our guide to what an executor does may help.
WillHarbour is an independent introduction service. We are not a law firm and we do not give legal, tax or financial advice. Sending an enquiry does not create a solicitor–client relationship with anyone. You can read more about how the process works and how we work with professionals.
Using WillHarbour is free, and there is no obligation to go ahead with any firm we introduce. We do not set prices. Each firm sets its own fees and terms, and should explain them clearly before you decide anything. Ask them to put the costs in writing.
The firms we work with pay WillHarbour a fee for each introduction. You never pay us anything. Each firm must tell you about its referral arrangement with us, as well as its own fees, before you instruct it. If anything is unclear, ask them directly.
The law on Wills is different in Scotland, and some rules are different in Northern Ireland. At the moment we focus on England and Wales, so we may not be able to route enquiries from elsewhere. You can still send an enquiry and we will let you know if we can help.
For official information, see the nidirect guide to making a Will in Northern Ireland or Citizens Advice Scotland’s information on Wills.
When you feel ready, start your Will enquiry. If you are not sure which service fits, try our short help me choose questions.
No. WillHarbour is an independent introduction service. We do not write Wills or give legal advice. With your permission, we share your enquiry with up to three suitable firms, such as solicitors or will-writing companies, which can explain your options and their fees.
No. Our service is free for you and there is no obligation to proceed. The firms we introduce set their own fees. They pay us a fee for each introduction, and they must tell you about this and their own fees before you instruct them.
You can help a parent get started, but the Will must be their own. They need to be involved, able to make their own decisions, and the professional will take instructions from them directly.
A single Will is made by one person. Mirror Wills are two separate Wills made by a couple, usually with very similar wishes. A professional can explain which may suit you.
Often, yes. In England and Wales, getting married or forming a civil partnership usually cancels a Will made before, unless it was made with that marriage in mind. A professional can check your situation.
Yes, you can in England and Wales. It must be signed and witnessed correctly to be valid. GOV.UK suggests getting advice if your situation is not simple, for example if you own a business or property overseas.
Will writing is not regulated in England and Wales, so it is wise to check. Ask about their qualifications, regulation, insurance and membership of any professional body. You can search the SRA register for solicitors.
We currently focus on England and Wales, where the firms we work with are based. You can still send an enquiry and we will let you know if we can help. Official guidance is available on mygov.scot and nidirect.
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