Wills & Family
Who should I choose as executor if I don’t trust my family?
Not everyone has a relative they would trust to handle their estate. Here is how to think about other options, from friends to professional executors.
Lasting Power of Attorney
Understand Lasting Powers of Attorney and find help putting the right arrangements in place.
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A Lasting Power of Attorney, or LPA, is a legal document that lets you choose people you trust to make decisions for you. These people are called attorneys. They can step in if you are no longer able to make certain decisions yourself, or in some cases if you simply want help.
Our help article on what an LPA is and how it works explains the basics.
In England and Wales there are two types:
Many people make both. Our guide to the difference between the two LPA types explains more.
An LPA is something any adult can think about. GOV.UK says you must be 18 or over and have mental capacity – the ability to make your own decisions – when you make your LPA. People often consider one when they:
If there is no LPA and someone loses capacity, their family may need to apply to the Court of Protection to become a deputy. This can take longer and involve more steps. Our article on what happens if there is no LPA explains more.
A professional can:
Choosing attorneys is a big decision. Our guide to who can be an attorney may help you think it through.
Many LPAs are simple. Professional help may be especially useful when:
An LPA can only be made by someone who has the mental capacity to make it. If that may not be possible, a professional can explain other options, such as applying to the Court of Protection to become a deputy. GOV.UK has an overview of how deputyship works.
Yes. GOV.UK says you can make a lasting power of attorney online or using paper forms. You can also ask someone, such as a family member, friend or solicitor, to help you fill them in. The LPA must then be registered with the Office of the Public Guardian before it can be used.
At the time of writing (October 2026), GOV.UK lists a registration fee of £92 for each LPA, unless you qualify for a reduction or exemption. Please check the official page for the current position. Our article on how LPA registration works explains the steps.
Some people are happy to make their LPAs themselves. Others prefer a professional to explain the choices and help avoid mistakes that could delay registration.
Whoever you use, it is sensible to check their regulation, insurance and membership yourself. You can search the Solicitors Regulation Authority register to confirm whether someone is a regulated solicitor.
WillHarbour is an independent introduction service. We are not a law firm and we do not give legal, tax or financial advice. Sending an enquiry does not create a solicitor–client relationship with anyone. You can read more about how the process works and how we work with professionals.
Using WillHarbour is free, and there is no obligation to go ahead with any firm we introduce. We do not set prices. Each firm sets its own fees and terms, and should explain them clearly before you decide anything. Ask them to put the costs in writing.
The firms we work with pay WillHarbour a fee for each introduction. You never pay us anything. Each firm must tell you about its referral arrangement with us, as well as its own fees, before you instruct it. If anything is unclear, ask them directly.
LPAs are part of the law of England and Wales. Scotland has continuing and welfare powers of attorney, and Northern Ireland uses enduring powers of attorney. At the moment we focus on England and Wales, so we may not be able to route enquiries from elsewhere. You can still send an enquiry and we will let you know if we can help.
For official information, see mygov.scot on power of attorney or nidirect on enduring power of attorney.
When you are ready, you can answer a few questions about your LPA. You may also want to think about your Will at the same time – our Will writing page explains how we can help.
No. WillHarbour is an independent introduction service. We do not prepare LPAs or give legal advice. With your permission, we pass your enquiry to up to three suitable firms, such as solicitors or will-writing companies, that can explain the next steps.
Only your parent can make their own LPA, and they must have the mental capacity to do so. You can help them get started. If they may not be able to make it, a professional can explain other options, such as deputyship.
Not necessarily. One covers health and welfare, the other covers property and financial affairs. Many people make both, but it depends on your wishes and circumstances.
Yes. GOV.UK lets you make an LPA online or with paper forms. It must then be registered with the Office of the Public Guardian before it can be used.
An enduring power of attorney made before October 2007 may still be valid. A professional can explain how it works and whether anything else may be useful.
No. Our service is free for you and there is no obligation. Each firm sets its own fees. The firms we work with pay us a fee for each introduction, and they must tell you about this before you instruct them.
We currently focus on England and Wales. Scotland and Northern Ireland have their own powers of attorney. You can still send an enquiry and we will let you know if we can help.
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