Wills & Family
Who should I choose as executor if I don’t trust my family?
Not everyone has a relative they would trust to handle their estate. Here is how to think about other options, from friends to professional executors.
A Will is a legal document that says who should receive your money, property and possessions when you die, and who should deal with your estate. Without one, the law decides who inherits, which may not match your wishes.
A Will is a written document that sets out what you want to happen to your estate after you die. Your estate is everything you own, such as money, property, investments and personal belongings, minus any debts.
Making a Will is one of the simplest ways to protect the people you care about. It gives them clear instructions at a difficult time.
A Will lets you make decisions that the law would otherwise make for you. In a Will you can usually:
You can read more about the people who carry out your wishes in our guide on what an executor does.
Many people think a Will only matters if they are wealthy. In practice, a Will can matter just as much for ordinary families. Here are some common reasons people make one.
Unmarried partners do not automatically inherit from each other under the law in England and Wales. Without a Will, a partner of many years could receive nothing from the estate. They may then have to make a claim through the courts.
A Will lets you name guardians for children under 18. It can also say how money should be held for them until they are older.
Stepchildren do not inherit under the intestacy rules unless they have been legally adopted. If you want to provide for stepchildren, a Will is usually the way to do it.
Your executors will collect your assets, pay debts and share out what is left. Choosing them yourself can make things easier for your family.
If you die without a valid Will, you die "intestate". Your estate is then shared according to fixed legal rules called the intestacy rules. These rules favour married partners, civil partners and blood relatives in a set order. They do not take account of close friends, charities or unmarried partners.
Our article on what happens when there is no Will explains the rules in more detail.
In England and Wales, for a Will to be valid, the person making it must:
There are some important traps around witnessing. For example, a witness, or their husband, wife or civil partner, should not be a beneficiary. Our guide on how a Will is signed and witnessed covers this step by step.
Sam and Priya have lived together for ten years and own their home together. They are not married and have one child. If Sam dies without a Will, Sam's share of any savings in Sam's sole name would pass under the intestacy rules to their child, not to Priya. Whether Priya keeps the home may depend on how the property is owned. A Will, and advice on how the home is held, could avoid this uncertainty.
This article covers England and Wales. Scotland and Northern Ireland have their own rules on Wills and inheritance. If you live there, see the official guidance on making a Will in Northern Ireland or the mygov.scot death and bereavement pages. At present we cannot reliably route enquiries from Scotland or Northern Ireland.
You can write your own Will, but mistakes can make it invalid or unclear. Professional help is often a good idea if:
Will writing is not a regulated legal activity in England and Wales, so anyone can call themselves a will writer. Always check a provider's regulation, insurance and professional membership yourself. You can search the Solicitors Register to confirm whether someone is a regulated solicitor.
If you are thinking about making a Will, it can help to jot down what you own, who you would like to benefit and who you trust to act as executor.
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Yes. You can write your own Will in England and Wales, but it must meet the legal rules to be valid. Professional help is often sensible if your situation is complex.
A Will can still be useful. It lets you choose who receives savings and belongings, name executors and appoint guardians for children.
A Will made in England may be recognised in Scotland, but Scottish law on inheritance is different. If you live in Scotland or own property there, it is worth taking local advice.
This guide is general information about the law in England and Wales at the time it was last reviewed. It isn’t legal, tax or financial advice. For advice on your own situation, speak to a qualified professional.
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