Wills & Family
Who should I choose as executor if I don’t trust my family?
Not everyone has a relative they would trust to handle their estate. Here is how to think about other options, from friends to professional executors.
A trustee is the person, or one of the people, who legally owns and manages assets held in a trust for the benefit of others. Trustees must act in the beneficiaries’ interests, follow the trust’s terms and meet tax and record-keeping duties.
A trustee looks after assets that have been placed in a trust. GOV.UK describes the trustee as the person who manages the trust and is the legal owner of the assets. Even so, the trustee cannot treat those assets as their own. They hold them for the beneficiaries, under the rules set out in the trust document.
If you are new to trusts, it may help to start with our overview, what a trust is and why people use one.
Trustees are usually chosen by the person setting up the trust (the settlor), or named in a Will. They are often:
Trustees should normally be adults with the mental capacity to make decisions. Many people choose at least two trustees, so that decisions are shared and the trust can carry on if one trustee dies or steps down.
The trust deed or Will sets out who can benefit and what powers the trustees have. Trustees must read it carefully and act within it.
Trustees must put the beneficiaries first. They should not benefit personally unless the trust allows it, and they should avoid conflicts of interest.
This can include investing money sensibly, keeping property insured and reviewing investments from time to time. Trustees can take advice from investment or legal professionals.
Good records matter. Trustees should keep track of money coming in and going out, decisions they make and the reasons for them.
GOV.UK says that, as a trustee, you are responsible for reporting and paying tax on behalf of the trust. This may mean:
Where there are several trustees, GOV.UK says one should be named as the “principal acting trustee” to deal with tax, although all trustees remain responsible. You can read more in our guides to how trust income and gains are taxed and the Trust Registration Service.
Sam and Priya are named as trustees in their uncle’s Will. The Will leaves a sum in trust for his granddaughter until she is 21. After the estate is settled, they open a trust bank account, register the trust with HMRC if required, invest the money and keep a simple log of every decision. Each year they check whether a tax return is needed. When the granddaughter turns 21, they pay out the money as the Will directs and close the trust.
Family and friends acting as trustees usually act without payment, although they can normally claim reasonable expenses. Professional trustees will charge for their time. Whether a trustee can be paid often depends on what the trust document says.
If you are named as a trustee, you do not have to accept the role. It is usually easier to decline before you start acting. Once you have taken on the role, stepping down can be more involved and may need the agreement of other trustees or a replacement. A professional can explain the process.
These roles are often confused. An executor deals with someone’s estate after they die. A trustee manages a trust, which may last for many years. An attorney under a Lasting Power of Attorney makes decisions for someone who is still alive. One person can hold more than one of these roles, but each comes with its own duties.
Trustees can be personally liable if they get things wrong, even by accident. It may be wise to speak to a qualified professional if:
Always check a professional’s regulation and insurance before instructing them.
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Often, yes. It is common for a family member to be both. However, it can create conflicts of interest, so the trust document and professional advice are worth checking.
There is no single right number. Many people choose two or more so decisions are shared. Some rules, such as those around selling land, can require at least two trustees.
A trustee can be personally liable for losses caused by breaching their duties. Taking advice and keeping clear records can help trustees act properly.
This guide is general information about the law in England and Wales at the time it was last reviewed. It isn’t legal, tax or financial advice. For advice on your own situation, speak to a qualified professional.
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